Secret Santa questions to ask
The best Secret Santa gift comes from one good question. Here are forty, grouped by what you want to find out. In Hollyhush you can ask any of them anonymously from your reveal page.
How to ask without giving yourself away
- Mix a few questions together so it doesn't look like you're shopping.
- Ask about favourites, not "what do you want?". You'll get more honest, more specific answers.
- If you ask about sizes, add a reason ("for a cosy thing") so it doesn't read as a clue.
- Ask one question at a time and wait for the reply.
Favourites
- What is your favourite snack or sweet?
- Dark, milk or white chocolate?
- Coffee, tea or something else?
- What is your go-to mug like?
- What is the last thing you bought that you love?
- Do you have a favourite scent: vanilla, pine, citrus, none?
- Which shop do you always end up in?
- What book, show or game are you into right now?
Practical
- What colours do you wear most?
- What sizes are you for gloves, socks or hats?
- Any allergies or things you avoid, such as nuts or fragrance?
- Do you have a hobby I should know about?
- What would make your commute or desk nicer?
- Is there something you'd love but never buy for yourself?
- Do you prefer something to use up or something to keep?
- Is there a store where a gift card would be a joy?
Fun
- If you could have any gadget, what would it be?
- What is your most-used thing in the kitchen?
- Cosy night in or night out: which is you?
- What is your guilty-pleasure treat?
- Which holiday tradition do you love most?
- What is the best gift you ever got?
- Do you like a gift that is funny, thoughtful or luxurious?
- If I wrapped a mystery item, what should it be for?
Home & style
- Is there a room you're decorating?
- Do you light candles, and which ones do you like?
- What do you keep on your bedside table?
- Plants: yes, no or please no?
- Soft blanket or fluffy slippers?
- What is your favourite pattern or print?
- Are you a minimalist or a collector?
- What would you hang on your wall?
Treats & experiences
- Hot sauce, jam or honey: which one?
- Do you bake or cook, and what tools would you like?
- What would you love for a night in: a game, a film, a puzzle?
- Which sweet treat is a weakness?
- Do you prefer salty or sweet?
- Is there a cafe or restaurant you love?
- Would you like a small experience, like a class or tickets?
- Do you have a collection I can add to?
Frequently asked questions
Can I ask my giftee questions without them knowing it's me?
Yes. In Hollyhush, your reveal page has an anonymous question box. They see it as from "your Secret Santa" and reply there.
What if they ignore my question?
Check their wishlist and try a simpler question next time. People often reply when it's about food or drink.
What should I never ask?
Anything personal or revealing. Stick to likes, sizes and practical questions.